body positivity Fashion

Plus size fashion rules: here’s why they’re BS

March 3, 2017

Fashion rules for all of the plus size humans in the world:

Don’t wear horizontal stripes.

Don’t show your arms.

Don’t wear crop tops.

Don’t wear tight shirts.

Don’t you dare wear bold patterns.

Don’t wear thick and bulky clothing.

Do try to cover up as much as humanly possible.

Dear whoever made up these rules,

You must be out of your mind.

I’m done staining department store dressing rooms with my tears because nothing fits according to any of your rules.

I’m so fed up with finding pieces of clothing I love and then being too scared to wear them out “in case I get judged”.

I have let so many amazing fashion finds go in the past because they were “too short” or “too tight’, and they would reveal my ghastly body to the world.

I’m over it.

I’m also 23 years old, and I’ve been dealing with being overweight for over 15 of those years. I’ve fought my battles long and hard, and at this moment I feel absolutely liberated. My body is my temple, and it’s incredible.

If you’re younger, feeling hopeless, or just haven’t come to the incredible realization that you too can wear whatever the frack you want – well, girl (or dude) I am here for you!

The crop top.

What’s that, a jiggly belly? Stretch marks?! DEAR LORD HELP US ALL. Truth be told, I love crop tops. See, little Srna? It’s not all so gloomy. Crop tops allow me to be the trouble maker that I am (hay hay t-shirt reference). No but seriously, get over yourself and let me parade my belly and tiger stripes around like the badass that I am.

Horizontal stripes.

Now listen, your girl is far from flat-chested – but why should that stop me from wearing horizontal stripes? I’M GOING TO WEAR ALL THE STRIPES – ENJOY!

Bold patterns? Bare arms?

C-C-C-COMBOOOOOO. How cute is this shirt though?


Bulky sweaters? Thick materials?

Excuse me while I stay warm during winter in 700 layers of sweaters. Bye Felicia!

Bottom line is, I’m tired of feeling restricted – and this is the year that I take back control of my body. My body is absolutely fantastic, can you see all that it can do? It allows me to live my life to the fullest each and every day, and I’m not about to put a brown potato sack over it just so that it doesn’t offend society.

I urge you to wear what you love. The more you consciously step out of your comfort zone, the more comfortable you’ll become with your awesome bod. Pinky promise! So next time you put on an amazing outfit and feel tempted to change out of it at the last minute, grab your phone, your keys, and bolt right out the door. Enjoy your day or your evening, all while looking absolutely fantastic.

Thanks to for reaching out with the inspo for this blog post!

Until next time,

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  • Reply Zara Anne March 3, 2017 at 3:10 pm

    You are beautiful and I agree 100% with this post! No one should make you feel bad about your body for any reason let alone how you dress. As a bigger girl myself I have experienced this so many times! X

    • Reply acrushonlife March 3, 2017 at 5:03 pm

      Thank you, Zara! 🙂 I hope more curvy ladies start to take back their bodies <3

  • Reply Janine March 3, 2017 at 10:08 pm

    Good for you! You should absolutely wear what you love – whatever that may be!

  • Reply Ela Kaimo March 4, 2017 at 4:53 am

    I did this once – I felt uncomfortable with the dress I was wearing because it felt tight around the belly, which is my “problem area” (ugh, hate that phrase). Instead of changing out of the dress, I marched out the door because I was too proud to change, if that makes sense.

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  • Reply Jay April 26, 2017 at 1:24 pm

    Srna.. girrrrrrl PREACH! You have a killer body so rock it with whatever you want to wear! That goes for everyone in any body shape!! Don’t feel like you can’t wear something you love because you’ll be judged. Who cares what they think!? Rock that outfit!
    Super love this post xoxo
    MUAHH! xoxoxox


  • Reply Amber @ My Life in Limbo May 23, 2017 at 6:25 pm

    You are GORGEOUS. I love all of these outfits! You rock them, lady. Living for your body positivity and confidence <3

    Amber ||

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