Long distance relationship Wedding

Crossroads: My life is about to change

July 30, 2017

If you’ve been following me for a while, you’ll know that I’m currently at the biggest crossroad of my entire life. In less than one week, I will be getting on a plane with all of my belongings and moving from Brussels to Wisconsin. As someone that suffers with flight anxiety, I haven’t really been able to think past the flights to the USA. But, in reality, what comes after is what makes this period of my life truly remarkable.

The next month holds so much love, joy, and celebration. I’d throw it all into one sentence, but I happen to dislike really long sentences, so let’s try a list.

  • I’m flying to Chicago via Iceland, Dylan is picking me up from there for a four hour road trip to our new little home. As I said, I have really bad flight anxiety so my thoughts are preoccupied with my two dumb flights.
  • Dylan and I are taking the next few days to furnish said new home. Throws, candles, pillows – I’m ready.
  • I turn 24 on August the 13th, and I finally get to celebrate my birthday with Dylan. We’ve missed too many birthdays whilst being in a long distance relationship!
  • My bestest friend in the entire world is, a) coming to stay with me and Dylan for a lil while, and b) GOT ORDAINED AND WILL PERFORM OUR CEREMONY!
  • Oh yeah, did I mention that I’M GETTING MARRIED ON AUGUST 19th?! When I said this month is life-changing, I really meant it.
  • I have incredible family and friends visiting for our little ceremony, and then Dylan and I are celebrating with everyone we love at a bar with lots of drinks and appetizers.

 

It’s both exciting and sad to close this chapter of my life and move onto the next one. These past two years in Brussels have been great for my creativity, my writing, and especially for my coffee consumption. But, I’m ready for the amazing life that Dylan and I are going to build together. This blog will become a little bit more personal from here on out. I’m sure that we’ll have plenty of adventures, as well as cozy days in, that we would love to share with you!

As for the wedding, as I know a lot of you have questions – it’s going to be a bit different (surprise, surprise)! I thought that not planning a big elaborate wedding would mean less planning and dealing with little details, but a small wedding has just as much planning on the agenda. I’ve been extremely lucky to have the help of friends and family, and I’m so freaking excited for the big day when we can all celebrate love.

Great things are ahead! Here we go.

xoxo

Srna

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10 Comments

  • Reply Kate July 30, 2017 at 12:58 pm

    So excited for you and the wedding!!!

    • Reply acrushonlife July 31, 2017 at 1:17 pm

      Thanks Kate! 🙂

  • Reply Jerri July 30, 2017 at 2:00 pm

    I’m so happy for you! This post came at the perfect time. It’s so good to see that someone is finally closing the gap. It makes me see that long distance relationships can have happy endings. Again, I’m so happy for you and I wish you and your fiancé a long and happy marriage. 💛

    • Reply acrushonlife July 31, 2017 at 1:18 pm

      Aww thank you!!! Yes – they absolutely can have a happy ending 🙂 <3

  • Reply Jay July 31, 2017 at 12:55 pm

    My heart is BEYOND happy for you, Srna!! I cannot believe it’s all happening!! You’ll finally forever be with the love of your life, living back in the states, with a new chapter ahead of you! I’m so happy and excited for you and HONORED to know you and to be able to celebrate (even from a distance) with you on this most exciting time! You guys are the cutest and I’m glad you’ll finally be closing the long distance chapter of your lives to live happily ever after in (what I can only imagine, knowing you) being the cutest pinterest home AND only an hours difference from me instead of 6.. which makes me happy haha. <3
    I'm excited to hear of what your future brings with this exciting and loving new milestone.
    I love you to bits and pieces!!! Here's to celebrating you and Dylan!! <333 xoxoxoxox

    Jay 🙂

    • Reply acrushonlife July 31, 2017 at 1:18 pm

      THIS. COMMENT. AAAAH I LOVE YOU.
      You’re seriously the best, I freaking can’t deal with you.
      Thank you, thank you, thaaaank you <3 <3 <3

  • Reply Marija Kocevska August 1, 2017 at 7:29 am

    I’m really happy for your Srna 🙂 and I wish you all the best! You’re amazing, don’t ever stop smiling ^_^

  • Reply Essa August 4, 2017 at 5:39 am

    I just found your blog but I am super excited for you. I recently turned 20 and I can’t imagine what my life will be like in four years but it is great to see where others are at that point in their life. I hope to later see pictures! I will be following you on Instagram!

    • Reply acrushonlife August 4, 2017 at 8:02 am

      Hi Essa! I’m loving your comments, thank you so much! To be honest with you, I was in a totally different place at age 20 and never could have imagined getting married at 24! 🙂 life is crazy exciting, and I’m taking it as it comes!
      I’ll give you a follow on Insta as well! <3
      Srna

      • Reply Essa August 10, 2017 at 1:14 am

        Thanks for commenting back! I am one of those rare people that checks for responses haha YES I bet life will be nothing how I expect it to be or dream of it being like!

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